5 Things Every Mom Must Tell Her Daughter Before She Gets Her First Period

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5 Things Every Mom Must Tell Her Daughter Before She Gets Her First Period

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You probably should start sooner than you think. Though the average age of the first period is around 12 years, there are more and more instances of early puberty or precocious puberty being reported. Even as early as age 6 or 7 years. Here are a few tips that you can follow to protect your daughter from early puberty.

Have You Talked To Your Daughter About Her First Period?

Signs of puberty include a sudden growth spurt, changes in body shape, and underarm and pubic hair growth. Breasts typically begin developing around ages 8 or 9, and she may need to start wearing beginner bras. Here are tips to help you choose the right starter bra for her.

If you notice any of these signs, be sure your daughter understands and feels comfortable with the following:

About The Period Itself

You must ensure that she knows what period means and the fact that she will get her period every month. You can use this fun video lesson on puberty to teach her all about it. 

Period Means Lots Of Period Products

There are more period products on the market today than ever before, and this can be confusing. This fun video by HowToTellYourChild.com will introduce her to all the available options and how to use and dispose of them. But as a word of caution, she’s better off using pads rather than tampons, since tampons carry a risk of toxic shock syndrome. She can also use period panties to prevent stains as pads might not be sufficient protection for long days at school with sports and moving around. 

Also read: What Are Period Panties? Why Do We Need Them?

Show And Tell

It’s not enough to just watch the videos and talk about these products. It’s important to have these products on hand and ready for her. It would be even better if you demonstrated how to use and dispose of them too. 

Being Ready

We all know by now that periods are unpredictable. Especially in the first year, she’ll experience many body changes. So it’s best if she starts using leakproof panties a week before her period and always carries her period essentials in her school bag.  

Being Positive

Cramps, tiredness, irritability and bloating are some of the not-so-pretty effects of periods. You are her primary role model. Teaching her that having a healthy period is important. You can influence her to be positive and to take discomforts in her stride. This will be the lesson of her life.

So, there you go. Equip your little angel with these important lessons and watch her shine. Period or No Period.

Also read: Why, When & How To Have The Period Talk With Your Daughter?

Signs Your Daughter May Get Her First Period Soon

Signs Your Daughter May Get Her First Period Soon

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Every child experiences puberty differently, but there are a few common signs that a first period may be approaching.

Your daughter may get her first period within the next one to two years if she notices:

  • Breast development

  • Growth of underarm or pubic hair

  • A sudden growth spurt

  • Mild acne

  • Clear or white vaginal discharge

Most girls get their first period about two years after breast development begins.

Remind your daughter that these changes are a normal part of growing up and happen at different ages for everyone.

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When Should You Start Talking About Periods?

When Should You Start Talking About Periods?

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There is no perfect age to start the conversation, but experts recommend talking about puberty before your daughter's first period begins.

Many girls get their first period between the ages of 9 and 15, with the average age being around 12 years.

Starting simple, age-appropriate conversations between the ages of 8 and 10 can help your daughter feel informed and confident.

Keep the conversation open and ongoing instead of treating it as a one-time discussion. Encourage questions and reassure your daughter that periods are a natural part of growing up.

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Build A First Period Emergency Kit

Build A First Period Emergency Kit

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Preparing a small period kit can help your daughter feel more confident if her period starts unexpectedly at school or while travelling.

Include the following items:

  • A few sanitary pads

  • Period panties or leakproof underwear

  • An extra pair of underwear

  • Wet wipes or tissues

  • A small pouch for carrying supplies

  • A paper bag for disposal if needed

Keep the kit in her school bag so she feels prepared wherever she goes.

Common Period Myths Every Daughter Should Know

Many girls hear confusing information about periods from friends or social media. Help your daughter understand the facts.

  • Periods are not dirty.

  • It is safe to shower or bathe during periods.

  • Girls can continue playing sports and exercising.

  • Every girl's cycle is different.

  • Irregular periods are common during the first few years.

Open conversations can help your daughter feel less anxious and more confident.

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Support Your Daughter's Emotional Well-Being

Support Your Daughter's Emotional Well-Being

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Getting a first period can bring many emotions, including excitement, confusion, embarrassment, or worry.

Let your daughter know that all these feelings are normal.

Listen without judgment, answer her questions honestly, and reassure her that she can always talk to you.

Avoid using negative words or treating periods as something embarrassing. Your support and attitude can shape how she feels about her body and periods for years to come.

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When Should You Consult A Doctor?

While irregular periods are common during the first few years, some symptoms should be checked by a healthcare professional.

Speak with a doctor if your daughter:

  • Has not started her period by age 15

  • Has severe pain that affects daily activities

  • Soaks through pads very quickly

  • Has periods lasting longer than seven days

  • Feels dizzy or extremely tired during her period

  • Does not get another period for several months after the first one

Early medical advice can help identify any underlying concerns.

Frequently Asked Questions 

What is the average age for a first period?

Most girls get their first period between the ages of 9 and 15. The average age is around 12 years.

How long does a first period last?

A first period usually lasts between 2 and 7 days.

Is it normal for periods to be irregular at first?

Yes. It can take a few years for periods to become regular.

How much blood is normal during a first period?

Most girls lose only a few tablespoons of blood during a period.

What should my daughter carry in her school bag?

A small period kit with pads, period panties, extra underwear, and tissues can help her feel prepared.

Can girls play sports during their period?

Yes. Physical activity is safe and may even help reduce cramps.

What if my daughter gets her first period at school?

Encourage her to speak to a trusted teacher, school nurse, or friend and use the period kit she carries.

Are cramps normal during the first period?

Mild cramps are common. If the pain is severe or interferes with daily activities, consult a doctor.

When should I take my daughter to a doctor?

See a doctor if she has severe pain, very heavy bleeding, periods lasting longer than seven days, or has not started menstruating by age 15.

Conclusion: 

Preparing young girls for their first period is essential in empowering them to understand their bodies and manage their menstrual cycles. 

Mothers play a crucial role by having open, honest conversations about menstruation, educating on hygiene and period products, and addressing any concerns or misconceptions.

By providing the necessary information and support, mothers can help their daughters navigate this important milestone with confidence and ease, setting the stage for a healthy and positive relationship with their bodies throughout their lives.

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