Waxing Or Shaving - How To Choose The Best One For You?

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Puberty brings many changes in a girl’s body. These include changes in body shape, breast development, periods, and hair growth. Hair growth in the pubic and underarm areas is natural and may feel new or unfamiliar at first. Hair removal is a personal topic, and it’s important to approach it with both sensitivity and emotional care.
Some of the first questions might be: “Hair removal or not?” and “Wax or shave?” In this article, we will try and address those questions so that you and your daughter make the best decision for her.

Start By Addressing Your Emotions

As a mom, I know we want the best for our daughters. First, they need to feel comfortable with their growing bodies. Talk to them about puberty and how every girl goes through the same changes. Let them know you went through it too. Reassure them that you're there for them during this phase.
Here is a fun video developed by our  Yashram’s social initiative HowToTellYourChild.com that will help her understand herself better in a positive and fun way.

Now that we’ve addressed the emotional side, let’s talk about the physical aspect of hair removal.    

Also read: Tips For Dealing With Your Teen’s Puberty Fears

Wax Or Shave Or No – Truly A Personal Choice

We are moving towards a more progressive and liberated world, where we are constantly testing and breaking boundaries. Many women are embracing their natural body hair and there’s no right or wrong choice, and certainly no shame in either. I applaud the strength of Kiersey Clemons, a model who fought back against online trolls shaming her for posting a picture of herself with armpit hair.  Some girls may choose not to shave, and that’s completely okay. As long as she is confident in herself, there is nothing to worry about. 
If you’re wondering when to consider hair removal, the right age would be when the hair is clearly visible and when she starts to get conscious and expresses a desire to remove it. 
Let us look at the pros and cons of the different types of hair removal techniques that will help you make the best decision with her.

Teach her how to care for her intimate hygiene, read more here.

Sparse Hair Growth? Here's What You Can Do About It

If she has just started developing hair and it’s still sparse, trimming with clean, rounded scissors is an option but always ensure safety and hygiene. It may feel a bit tricky at first, so take it slow and keep the mood light. So, if you do choose to try this out, keep things light maybe add some hot chocolate and a fun chat.

About Shaving

Pros

  • Quick & easy
  • It’s not painful, which may make it a better option for underarms and pubic areas.    
  • It’s a quick routine she can manage herself during a shower.
  • You can teach her to do it herself

Cons

  • Hair may grow back thicker and coarser.
  • Possibility of nicks & cuts

About Waxing

Pros

  • Leaves a very smooth finish
  • Lasts much longer

Cons

  • It can be painful, especially for pubic or underarm hair. 
  • Takes a much longer time
  • It may get a little messy, so it’s good to be prepared with wipes or towels.
  • She may need your help or a visit to a salon for waxing.

Conclusion

As a mom, the best thing you can do is to be by her side through her growing up years. Be it preparing your daughter for her first period, helping her choose her first bra or helping her make a decision on body hair. I’m sure you’ll raise a strong and confident young woman.    
Cheers!

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